Before you can attract the kind of love you want in your life, you must be in a good place within your own life. If you are hungry, anything is going to taste good. This is why it is important to find a way to fill your mind, body, and soul with love and joy BEFORE you meet your soulmate. You don’t want to settle for someone just because they are meeting needs that you could meet yourself, but aren’t actually healthy for you. We want a soulmate not another bad decision.
What to have before you manifest your soulmate:
- Good friends of both sexes
- A clear sense of what creates happiness for you
- A healthy way to process your feelings
- Activities you enjoy doing alone
- Feeling proud of where you are in life
- The ability to be happy alone
- A health routine
- Something that feeds your soul
- Total responsibility for your life, actions, feelings, habits, etc.
- Financial stability/ the ability to pay your own way
- A list of qualities you want in a partner and exactly what you don’t want
- The ability to receive praise, love, gifts, and be treated well by others
- The ability to accept other people with love and no judgment
- Knowing you are not responsible for anyone else’s feelings and they are not responsible for yours
- The ability to give from a place of security and love
- Total acceptance of yourself so you don’t need acceptance from others
- To forgive yourself of anything from your past that is causing guilt, sadness, worry, anxiety, or depression
- The ability to communicate your needs, thoughts, feelings, desires, etc. in a healthy way
- Coming from a place of “it would be nice if…” instead of “I need…”
Now that you know where you are in terms of what to have, you can start filling in anything that is missing!