A man who only contacts you to see how you’re doing when he’s trying to sleep with you is a booty call…

A man who only contacts you to see how you’re doing when he’s trying to sleep with you is a booty call…

Now depending on what you want from this man, that may be perfectly fine. We all want some action from time to time but remember, your body is a sacred temple. Anyone you decide to sleep with will leave their energy inside of you, so it is important to discriminate whose energy you allow in. 

If you feel like this is a man you want to date or you find yourself getting upset because he doesn’t contact you as often as you want him to, it’s time to get super honest with yourself.

Do you really just want to be a booty call? Are you scared you won’t find anyone who will treat you well and actually love you so you settle for this type of booty call relationship? Are you using the booty call to protect your heart from getting hurt but if you really think about it, it hurts to be a booty call?

You don’t have to settle for being a booty call. You can have the love you desire but not until you decide that you deserve better than what you’ve been settling for. It’s better to be alone to create the space for the love that you desire than to allow someone who isn’t treating you the way you want to be treated to take up space in your heart. There are good men out there who will respect and love you. If you keep choosing men who don’t, you will never find the one that will.

If you haven’t been having luck in your relationships, I invite you to join the Game of Love. It teaches you how to become the partner you’ve been looking for so that you can find your perfect match.